Posts Tagged ‘kurek ashley’

1% per day… (51 days to go)

Sunday, August 16th, 2009

I was having a conversation with a good friend of mine last week, and he mentioned something he read in Kurek Ashely’s book - “How would love respond?“. (FYI - this is a great book and if you’re looking at investing $20-$30 to begin to turn your life around, this is an excellent way to start. I suggest you pick up your own copy by clicking here……[end of shameless plug])

howwouldloverespond.jpgSeriously though, I’ve been to one of Kurek Ashley’s live seminars, walked across searing-hot coals without getting burnt, and totally transformed my life. Kurek doesn’t get all the credit, however he certainly started me on my journey, and what a ride it has been so far - life ROCKS!

So back to the point: The theory is that you choose an area of your life (for example, your finances) and then each day you do something that will improve this area of your life by at least one percent (1%). This kind of leads on from my previous post about the 30 day plan.

After a year….you guessed it, you should have improved in the region of 365%! Now that’s quite a major change, even taken over a whole year. When you look at all the things you did that made up each one percent, they probably weren’t big things or very difficult to carry out.

It could be as simple as:

  • making a phone call
  • talking to someone
  • thinking something about someone or something
  • Trying something new
  • Ending a bad or dis-empowering habit
  • Doing something good for someone else
  • The list goes on….

The thing I like about this approach is IT WORKS! Not only do you actually improve the areas of your life that you set out to, but you also begin doing something much more important. You start to think yourself rich. Now by rich, I don’t necessarily mean money, I’m talking about wealth in the holistic sense. You’re having a thought that you may not have normally have had:

“What can I do today in order to improve my finances/relationship/friendship/health/etc by one percent?”

By asking yourself that single question on a daily basis, you are beginning to form a pattern. Keep working at it and soon that daily pattern will turn into a habit, which means it becomes part of your every day life, just like waking up and going to sleep. This habit happens automatically, so you are automatically improving your life! :-)

So I hear you ask, “Well if I can turn this into a habit, couldn’t I repeat this process with other strategies and turn them into habits”? OF COURSE YOU CAN! Imagine living your ultimate life - everyday, and all you’re doing is doing the same stuff you normally do?

So swap for you negative thoughts for positive thoughts. Get those dis-empowering thoughts and actions and replace them with empowering thoughts and actions. Spread the love. Make hapiness you mantra. Enjoy it and stay positive…

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Achieving my Grand Dream Goal! (215 days to go)

Friday, March 6th, 2009

Today we bought a house… This is our first house and part of me is still struggling to understand that we own this house, that I won’t have to talk to a landlord for a really long time. I have always dreamed of owning our own home, however the picture I had in my mind until about 6 months ago, was a run down, dreary, home, waiting for me to spend massive amounts of hard earned money on it and lots of blood sweat and tears in order to get it up to scratch.

I better tell you how this happened. Almost two months ago, I was driving to a nearby city, listening to an audio program that I purchased a few months prior. This was by Kurek Ashley and is part of his Life Success Club series. This is one of the things I have chosen to invest in for my personal development.

On this particular audio program, Kurek was talking about Grand Dream goals and an exercise he carried out with a group he was working with at the time. He asked them to write down their grand dream goals on a piece of paper, and then circle one of them. Remember, a Grand Dream Goal (GDG) is one of your life ambitions, it’s something massive that when you’ve achieved it, you can look back and be amazed!

To cut a long story short, Kurek divided the group into pairs and told them that they each had only 1 month to achieve that GDG, or their partner would be fines $5,000.00! What an incentive. At the end of the story, he talked about how people grew during that process, whether they achieved their goal or not.

Next he told us (the listener), that he was laying out the same challenge for us. We had to choose one of our GDG’s then and there and commit to doing everything we could to achieve it within 1 month! I thought about it for a few minutes and decided that I was going to focus on achieving those goal with everything I had.

I chose my GDG about owning our own home. The goal on my dream board reads:

“We have just bought our first property on or before 12/06/2009″

It was January 2009….even if I could have pulled this off by the 12th of June 2009, I would have been over the moon! I had no idea how I was going to make this work. That was the last dis-empowering thought I had about my goal.

I immediately decided that I was going to achieve this goal within the next month. I decided that I would get up 15 minutes earlier everyday for the next month, and spend that time figuring out how to achieve this awesome goal. When I got home, I wrote up a new goal and pinned it on to my dream board:

“What am I going to do today, to ensure that we own our own home on or before 15/02/2009?”

That note stood out everyday when I walked past my dream board. The end result - I didn’t achieve it within the month. We had an offer on a house that was accepted on 13/02/2009. We move in to the house next weekend, so we’re living in our house 1 month later.

What an amazing journey. This was a goal that I thought would take many months, if not years, to achieve and here I am - less than two months later, about to move into our new 4 bedroom home! What other things have we been telling ourselves, are difficult to attain? Maybe it’s time to readjust our expectations and make our dreams a reality.

Below is a photo of our new home - it’s absolutely beautiful. The best part is that my wife loves it. Months ago, I planned on finding a cheap 2 bedroom unit that we would have to renovate and do-up over time. Instead, we are moving into this luxurious home - our first home!

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Over the next week, I will talk about how I achieved this great success.For now, I am going to practice another one of my favourite past times - celebrating our successes. It makes you crave more of them :-)