Archive for July, 2009

Follow your heart (68 days to go)

Thursday, July 30th, 2009

I’ve just been watching a music dvd of Donavon Frankenreiter, the Abbey Road sessions. I don’t know what it is but it really connects with me. I picked up the dvd for $1 when I was in Australia on my honeymoon back in May 2008. It was at one of those book, cd & dvd fairs and there were a few bargains to be had. I bought it more out of curiosity than anything else. Once we got back to our apartment I put it on and was amazed at how great it was.

To be honest, I thought it would be pretty crap for $1. Another lesson - don’t judge a book (or dvd) by it’s price! It was really great and I originally thought it was just because I was on holiday that I enjoyed it so much….that was until I put it on a couple of times when I was back in NZ.

This guys really impresses me - he’s grounded and seems to have his priorities setup:

“From his genuine nature, to his big heart, to his all-around charisma, once you connect with his vibe you realize that he is truly unique. Donavon lives an incredible life, one that he never takes for granted. His vocations and drive have enabled him to live the one person’s fantasy, as a reality.

First and foremost, you have Donavon the husband to his wife Petra and father to his sons Hendrix and Ozzy. Their love and presence are the driving force in his life, as can be seen by the beautiful tattoo of the three on his forearm. Next you have Donavon the pro-surfer, who has and continues to travel the world extensively surfing in some of the most popular and also most remote places on the globe. As a matter of fact, both Donavon’s surfboard and guitar case have seen more places than most humans ever will. And of course, you have Donavon Frankenreiter the musician, who is about to release his third, and probably most important album to date titled Pass It Around (Lost Highway). ” - Donavonf.com Bio

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He spend his life surfing, and travelling the world playing his music, with his wife and kids. Some would say that music is his passion, however I believe that his family are his passion. I’m willing to bet that he would give up playing concerts all around the world in just an instant if his family asked him to.

One of life’s biggest challenges is to find our purpose, the reason we are here on this earth. I think you know when you’ve found your purpose, because it consumes your life. It changes your life and everything seems to fall into place. I’m not saying that you won’t come up against challenges, rather that you know the challenges are there for a reason :-)

So perhaps the time has come….for you to follow your heart. Are you inspired every morning when you wake up? Are you surrounded with like-minded people, people who you love and care for and those who feel the same about you? Is everyday a blessing or a chore?

Maybe you’re not doing what you should be. So why not explore some different options:

  • Tired of your job? Ask your boss for a promotion, or quit your job!  Yes it may be scary, but it will also probably be one of the most exciting things you will ever do!
  • Sell your car, pack your stuff and book a one-way ticket to Timbuktu (or London for those who are less adventurous)
  • Do you have a skill that can earn you a living? Why not start your own business? There’s tons of resources to help people who decide to work for themselves. Find a business mentor and get started!
  • Why not try to volunteer somewhere? I’m sure if you look, you’ll find dozens of opportunities to volunteer in your local community. You may be surprised at how rewarding it can be.

What ever you decide - make sure that you do what makes you happy. A friend of mine recently sent me this definition - I hope it helps you.

“I have recently concluded that the secret to being happy in life is limiting the gap between where you are at and where you think you should be.”

 Chris Wingate

 All the best and have a FANTASTIC week! :-)

Ryan Kilfoil - The Kiwi Millionaire

Action…it never ceases to amaze me (76 days to go)

Wednesday, July 22nd, 2009

Yes, I know, I talk about action a lot. And I guess that’s because I am constantly astounded as to how this affects my life and those around me. Taking action is one of those things that we all know that we need to do, if we want to get something or get somewhere in life.

Taking action is also one of those things that can be challenging at times. I have to agree, because I often find myself knowing what to do, but not taking action and doing it! There’s always a plethora of excuses we manage to conjure up, and we may even do such a good job of convincing ourselves that it becomes a habit NOT TO TAKE action. This creates a problem, as if you’re not taking action towards your goals, then I hate to break it to you….but you’re not going to achieve them…

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So what can we do to overcome this challenge of not taking action? It’s simple. Grow up and take responsibility for your goals. Once you take responsibility for what you want to achieve in life, then you know that the only thing standing between yourself and your goals… is you!

One of the challenges in life is to change the habits that we have become used to ie, that we can’t have everything we want in life, that we are here to work 9-5, then retire and then die (how exciting!) etc etc. These have been drilled into society on so many levels, it can be difficult to undo them, however it can be done.

Just be conscious of your thoughts, as much as possible. If your thoughts turn into actions, which then generate your results, it makes sense to monitor your thoughts to make sure that you’re having empowering thoughts.

Once you decide to take action and follow through everything changes. Taking action is the key to success to everything in life. So if you’re been putting off something that you know is a critical factor in your success, then consider this your personal reminder - DO IT NOW!

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Your free Book! (87 days to go)

Friday, July 10th, 2009

Well, not only am I now in double digits as far as the number of days until I achieve my goal, but I’ve also just surpassed another milestone with the release of my best selling E-Book - “How to change your life TODAY!”, which has just been published on SmashWords International website!

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As a big thank you for following my journey on this blog, I would like to offer you a copy for free.

It’s usually USD$19.99 for this e-book, but if you follow the link below and enter this promotional code GP87V  - it won’t cost you a thing!

Hurry because this offer finishes July 31st!

I really do hope that you will get the maximum benefit from reading this book. As the free code is vald until 31/07/2009, I am more than happy for you to share that link and promotional code with your friends and family, if you believe that they might benefit from reading the book too.

Thanks again for your ongoing support. I honestly thrive off helping other people as I believe the only true way to success is through helping others be successful.

Yours in success,

Ryan Kilfoil